My husband come back after one month & he hardly recognize David [note: David is autistic.] David's speech improved dramatically (his spontaneous language increased), he starts listen & follow instructions more often that was not happened before. I believe I mentioned to you that David is crazy about Pirates themes?... Currently he starts to shift his interests to other things as well (so no much pirating anymore - even so he still playing with the boats but not in extend that it was before). He better communicates with other children. He follows the rules of the game (which never happened before). He was surprised us recently when he asked to turn music in the car. This is really incredible - before there is no chance that it can happened (he did not like any music from radio or any other devices except TV) right now it shifted as well. Also I can negotiate a lot of things with him that before was not possible. He starts to answer questions in better way (without any prompt) that shows me that his comprehensive level of language increased as well.
I am tapping every evening while David is going to sleep. I do it on him & myself. I do it for his speech delay/problem, his communication problem, his birth trauma, his obesity as well.
David's grandfather was away as well for a month and he told me that David made a big shift during the last month. Even the people who knows him & so him ore often for the last month they told me the same.
So it seems the EFT is working.
A lot of THANKS to you for your OPEN HEART & WILLINGNESS TO HELP MY SON & ALL OTHERS!!!!!!!!
Of cause you may share this experience with anyone you'd like. No problem at all. If you want you can give me as a reference to other people who want to try this technique & hesitate. No problem.
I am so thankful to you it is impossible to express by words.
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"When I first met Sandra, I was suffering from severe depression after my marriage of 31 years had suddenly and dramatically ended. I had been crying non stop for over 30 days. Within an hour of talking to Sandra the tears had stopped. Within a couple of weeks I was ready to take charge of my life, go back to work, and get on with the job of learning how to live on my own and to take care of myself for the first time in my life. Through EFT and other techniques, Sandra equipped me with the tools I needed to deal with my emotional issues and to develop the strength I needed.
I now own and operate my own business, I have lost over 40 lbs., exercise regularly and feel great about myself for the first time in many years. Six months later, my husband and I are working on our relationship and seeing each other in new and different ways. With what we both learned from Sandra, we are making noticeable changes in our lives and within ourselves. Through the wonderful guidance and teachings that Sandra gave us, we hope that in time, we can forgive and learn to love each other the way we once did."
-L.J.A.-Terrace, British Columbia
I went to see Sandra in a time of my life that I was really confused not only regarding problems with other people at work, but also issues with my mother. She was able to find core issues that I have not been able to see by myself, in spite of many years of trying different therapies, and I was able to understand a lot of things that I was not able to understand before. I had sessions with her in person and on the phone and both were great.
Since I went to see her my life is very different and I have been able to make a lot of changes. She is not only a great therapist, but also a great human being; she does really care about her clients. I have my own business now helping others, and have even written a book about my journey and what I have learned. Sandra can help you find yourself and live the life you were meant to. If you would like to know more about how I have changed, please visit my website.
Carla Valencia Toronto (http://selfesteemawareness.com/boostyourselfesteem)
"Prior to speaking with Sandra I had been to another Therapist and I found all she did was listen and ask questions but offered no solutions to helping me change. If you're like me, you already know what your problems are. But you still feel the same way. Sandra certainly listened and asked questions but she also gets to the core of things.
Through Cognitive Behavior Therapy and EFT, Sandra gave me the tools to stop the downward spiral in my thinking, within 2-3 sessions! And this was on the phone. I could not believe how EFT alone released emotions I had been carrying for months.
I was gaining control of my life again and for the first time in awhile, my tears were for joy and not sorrow. It's been over a year since I first spoke with Sandra and life is brighter than ever.
from my heart
Thank You, Sandra!
BB - Ottawa
With a combination of Cognitive Therapy, EFT and nutritional changes I was able to get through a painful breakup and shake off the thirty years of depression which medication had only masked. I had not realized how my diet, as a result of my very busy lifestyle, was wreaking havoc with my moods. And whenever I felt especially down, I would reach for the same deadly comfort foods. In fact it was astounding to me how quickly I started to feel better just eliminating certain foods from my diet. I fall off the wagon now and then, but at least I know why I am feeling bad. And it's in my control.
Besides the nutritional counselling, Sandra was able to show me how to analyze my thought patterns and actually change them. It was a challenge at first, because they were very old habits. But she was right, habits can be changed. And now I think very differently.
It’s great to have Sandra in my corner!
-B.P.- Toronto
Thanks to Sandra, I am back on track and happier than I've been in a long time. Depression can take over and interfere with every part of your life. Sandra helped me find my way back. I will be forever grateful for her help during those difficult days.
-Anonymous - Toronto
"My husband has changed so much it amazes me. The whole family has been talking about it. He is off his self pity trip and is taking charge of his life. He is doing things for himself, me and his children that he never would have done before. He is thinking of others for the first time. He is able to express himself and show his emotions, that in itself is a miracle. I can't really explain everything except he is taking charge of his life and being a man. He feels good about himself and is pleased with his accomplishments. That's the man I fell in love with." -British Columbia
Well I feel great...I've had the most unlucky week ever, everything that could of gone wrong did go wrong. It's so funny cuz I dealt with it all without going nuts...ok maybe a little bit but not that bad!! If you had known me before I started seeing Sandra, you would know how big that is. Just to be able to have a bad week and not get destroyed by it. Seriously! It feels pretty good just to be able to have a few things go wrong and still handle it. Wow.
I just wanted to thank you for everything, Sandra... you really helped me...
-P.V.-Burlington
Thank you, thank you! As a result of our session, our first session, the big thing that has seemed to drop away is my perfectionism. I have had lots of issues with 'getting it right' and have put enormous pressure on myself as a result. Anyway something fairly major slipped off my shoulders as a result of just one session. I felt it a bit on the phone with you, but I really noticed a difference in the hours afterward.
And even today, a few days later, I can feel the difference. It's very weird to me that EFT could work like this. I admit I was totally skeptical of it, especially as I have spent my life as a counsellor here in London. But seeing is believing, I guess. I still have issues to work on, but I know how to do some of this work myself now, and it's great knowing I can always connect with you if things get too difficult.
Again, thank you for your patience and for the extra time you spent with me!
-M.D.- London, UK